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writes: I wouldn't say that I am anything special, but I never have the problem of lack of boys. But the boy I went long term with wants to get back together with me. I do really like him. I like another boy but he says he will only when I am over my ex. The problem is I don't know whether I want to. A bitchy girl in my class also has her eye on my ex and it would kill me to see them together, so that adds to the problem. And not only that, but when I'm with my ex and we are making out he's making me toss him off loads and the other day he was pushing me down to suck him off. This has put me off a little because it feels like a chore, and he barely gives me anything in return - What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2006): Dam girl, if he's pushing your head down push his head down the toilet see how he likes it.My boyfriend split up with me ages ago thank god because he forced me to do things i didn't want to do so just give him a huge shock or just tell him no! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2006): Are you kidding. Dunp him unless he starts returning the favors aspa. There are plenty of horny men out there to feel jelous over. Do some work on your self and figure out why you are attracted to such a f#$%ed relationship-
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2005): Well my problem is me and my ex-fiance and children dad had just kind of seperated in July of 2005 due to another woman I found out about but still beliving thing would get better We continue to see each other as like nothing changed. He even took me with him house shopping to find us a house. But things changed for the worst in September he called me sayinghe had good news and bad, that he found a house but with the woman who brung us hell and that their getting married. So I lefted him along and cried for weeks than I got child support and legal custody of the two kids we have. My problem is now he wants me back after a month of legal procedures in drama. I do still love him cause yes I had done wrong to when I discover about her I found other man to comfort me sexual also. Five years we had I just don't trust him what he done left me thinking.He cheated, he left me, no money, he took the car, move close to my home with a woman, and invited me to their wedding. Should I give him another chance he was such a good man and still is for the last month or two he left told her and his family he sorry and begging me for forgivness he's young 23.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2005): we dont know how old you are but if this guy want u to toss him off and is making you suck him off this realtiship ant going to go anywhere you need to end it and give him a good slap and tell this guy you like to
tell him you really do like himand tell him wot you did with your ex because this guy with not know and its not fair for this guy not to know
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reader, Delila +, writes (3 September 2005):
I can really see where you're comming from. females and males are just soooo different. We have all kinds of different needs and it all gets very confusing. As a rule of thumb, young guys want sex and they want it a lot. As a male matures his hormones level out, he still wants a lot of sex but he starts to be able to see and feel beyond his penis. Young girls want love and lots of that, as we mature we start to want sex more, it stops feeling like a chore. You care for your ex, but it seems like he might just want sex. This new guy sounds a bit more mature in that he might want to go steady but not with you on the rebound. Stick to some girl fun for now, do some stuff that makes you feel good, flirt as much as you like but give yourself a little bit of you time.
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reader, pops +, writes (3 September 2005):
Catch your breathe, and stay away from the ex. Why would you want anything to do with a guy who would be seen in the company of this other girl you don't like? What does that say about his judgment. You didn't tell us why you broke up with the ex-bf. If there was a problem with him earlier, what has changed? You are too young to be making plans to settle on one guy. Date and have fun. But don't pin yourself down with one boy. There is more than enough time in your life to settle down when you are older, more experienced, and better educated.
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reader, xxChazxx +, writes (3 September 2005):
Think back on why u split up with you ex if its a reason like he treated me horrible or i wasnt happy or i had enough and got bored then i suggest you try it out with the other boy if its not a reason like that then your not over your ex. And your heart will tell you what you want i cant Luv xxChazxx
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reader, lulu +, writes (3 September 2005):
you should only be with anyone, whether its your boyfrien or your ex if you really want to be. if you are unsure of your feelings to both your current bioyfriend and your ex then you should take time to figure out what it really is you want and whether you have feelings for them or whether its because you can't bare anyone else to be with them. Only you know what you feel and should be with someone for the right reasons, not because you dont want anyone else to be with someone.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (3 September 2005):
 First of all an ex is an ex and any sex with an ex changes things somewhat. It seems that you have had some problems with compromise with your ex not only in sex but other things. Getting jealous because another has her eye on your ex is normal..but remember he is an ex. Ask yourself if you think that if you get back together with him if things will change from what they are now. Your ex seem selfish to say the least. This new guy I respect because he respects himself enough to say...he will not be a band aid or be used as some jealousy pawn. If you really like him...forget your ex and go there...if you are using him to get back at your ex...you have picked the wrong guy cause he won't stand for it. YOu can also take a time out and be by yourself for a bit. Think about what you want as a woman and then when you have decided that...move to get it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2005): Get over your ex and stop making out with him. If you also like another boy then, after you get over your ex, why don't you ask him out? The sooner you get over your ex the better.
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reader, emz_xxxx +, writes (3 September 2005):
 If you're ex is forcing you to do things you don't want to do, forget about him... he's using you to show other guys how good he is and how he can get anyone anytime. And you say you like someone else? Why don't you try with this guy and see how you feel about him, get to know him more, see what his personality is like, see how he feels about you. Then if you want to stay with him you can but if you still like your ex then fine, its your choice...
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