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writes: Hi this is a question about my boyfriend, every time we try to have sex he seems to come before we even get it in!! Sometimes there isn't even any foreplay hardly!! Should I ask him to come once and then go again?? He doesn't loose his erection and were both young so that shouldn't be hard should it?! Any help from guys would be appreciated xx
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reader, george3  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 the guy can be masturbated first, and youll enjoy the show...then pounce upon him with a juncle fever
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo we went to the doctors, the doctor said it was normall as it was his first sexuall relationship... He was like "this is totally normal" and "over time you(him) will be able to control it and hold in for longer natrually" ... Anyway that wasn't any help at all except for him because he now feels "normal". I don't mean that in a cruel way I'm happy fir him it's just not the outcome i intended for.
Thanks anonymous male I've told him to stay away from red meat, eat bannanas and look up male kegel excersises!!
Thanks you guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys thatnks for the advice!! Especially anonymous male with the medical stuff, I will ask him to go to the doctors and I'll update you guys on it when appropriate xx
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reader, ChristineAvril  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 Could "anonymous" provide an identity so that we can PM you? Your contact information was blocked.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): Ok, well, in Australia we do have these consultants who call themselves AMI (Australian Medical Institute), now they do sound dodgey just by the tv ads, but I have the same issue, unfortunately ive had the problem since i was 16, im no 29..
I only recently saw them, now, im sure they can send you a booklet, otherwise i can scan it in for you,,..
There is also a SSRI (Anti Psychotic) which is the main chemical used in their medication along with some vitamins n stufgf which aint really heklpful, ya might as well eat bnanas n stff
+ STAY away from RED MEAT
no more than once a fortnight
but yes, Bananas are very good...
Getya boy to go to the docs and ask for: CLOMIPRAMINE
You take no more than 10-20mg every 2nd day
now im approx 90kg so if hes a lils maller in kg's
try 10-15mg
they coimeme in 40mg pills, so use a knife to chop em
there are physical exericses to do
theres that basic relax and tense exerise which is well knwn of
abd tgeres KEGAL exercses
its like when a dog has worms on their butt and they try to scrape their btt on the floor
but instead ya legs need to be straight
ontop if ya comfy with ya partner n vice versa
do the start stop
it may be booring for the chick
but it will teach the guy he's point of no return
WORST CASE
one I don t like cos Im onit for pain relief
is TRAMADOL HCL
its a synthetic morphine
but they sell em in nasal sprays in small doses
but ya can simply get tramadol from yya doc
cut it into whatever dose ya require
and snort it
for the SSRI, it can take 4 weeks to work
I hpoe this helps
... At the moment, i consider myself a master
when you go for 14-18hrs a day, i think you'd have that opinoin yaself
well the guy would
the chick would be ouchies :P
any questions: msn [email address blocked] -- email: [email address blocked]
take care
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (28 May 2010):
 Oral, darling. Try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): Yeah thats pretty unfair for you. you need to make him cum first before sex, then he foreplays so he gets hard again then im sure itll last longer.
Hopefully....
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (28 May 2010):
 You could look at it time way: You are so friggin hot that just the sight of you makes him explode. But that is still no reason for his to be a lousy lover.
I suggest that before the next time you have sex, he needs to get the first load off by himself (masterbation). It takes a while for men to recover after reaching orgasm. Some guys a few minutes, and others a few hours. Err on the side of 2 hours to be safe. Have him rub one off (masterbate) 2 hours prior to your love making, and by the time you two go for round two, he should be good to go.
Don't settle for a 2 minute man. Sex should be mutually gratifying.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (28 May 2010):
 I think you need to be a bit more forceful in the relationship.
He is getting what he wants, but you ain't and it doesn't seem he is making any effort at all. No foreplay, no afterplay. Doing it just once. What is the difference between you and a blowup doll?
Read up on how to deal with premature ejaculation, but before that, read up on how to deal with self-centered lovers.
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reader, ChristineAvril +, writes (28 May 2010):
Why does it all have to end so quickly? And no foreplay!
He owes it to you to bring you off once or twice before penetration, and then you will be more ready; and if you give him a BJ as well, before he penetrates you, still hard, you will have a much better time, both of you!
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