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writes:I was in a relationship with a married man as we found out I was pregnant I was taking precautions I have seen him for a ywar and now that this has happened he wants to end it all and have nothing at all to do with baby.
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reader, Kammi  +, writes (6 December 2009):
I'm curious to know how things worked out for you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): Hi there, Things are entirely up to you
I was or should say still in the same situation. My daughter is nearly 3 now.
There is no contact with her dad but he does pay support each month and as far as I know wife still doesn't know.
Good luck with your desicion, but please DO NOT make your desicion on the presumption he'll come running once baby arrives, you will probably be totally alone with all this.Good luck and hope all goes well
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): I say screw him, tell his wife she has a right to know what the waste of space she calls her husband has been up to, take everything from him that you can do whatever you feel is neccesary this is not all your fault so don't blame yourself it takes 2 he knew what he was getting his self into as much as you did, it annoys me that people always blame the other woman when the man should take responsibility for his own actions. If you feel strong enough bring the baby up on your own thousands of woman do it every day with the support of family and friends you will do ok.
I wish you the best x
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (17 October 2007):
He just used you. Now you must make your baby your number one priority. He needs to help support the baby. Maybe his fatherhood will convince him that he has an obligation. Hopefully you learn a lessson about sex and love.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (17 October 2007):
 Hi Honey,
Sorry, but what did you expect. He has shown his real colours and although you have the ball in your court I would think twice about using it.
You could cause him major trouble by telling his poor wife, but this would only hurt her. And out of all of this, she is the one that deserve's it the least.
Are you in a postion to bring this baby up alone, or would you be better off with a termination, or adoption.
There is no easy way out but personally, I would pick a termination. Yes its something you have to live with, but its a lot less painfull than the alternative if you cannot afford this baby on your own.
This guy has no morals, and you have not done yourself justice by having an affair with him either. Although I understand you cant help who you fall in love with.
Please dont let this drag you down further.
Whatever your decision, I wish you well. XXX
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