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I'm pregnant and have just split up!

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Question - (6 December 2004) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2008)
A , anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend broke up last week, he's still mad at me and now he acts like he doesn't care anymore. He moved out last week, our baby is due any day now and he doesn't even call to check on me. He said to call him when I go into labor. I'm so in love with him i cry everyday I feel lie I'm going crazy without him. I can't function right, I can't sleep, I can't get up to take my 4 year old to school, I cant eat. How can I get him back it seems like he doesn't love me anymore...but he says he does. Please help me soon. I feel like dying....i feel like I don't even want my unborn baby anymore because he's gone.

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A female reader, shezzy United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2008):

hey i know what your going through the excally same just happened to me. I cant eat or sleep and feel like i dunt want my child anymore without him. He says he loves me but he cnt be with me iv just got 3 weeks left and all i am trying to do is get him back but he just dont wanna know any advice??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006):

First of all you should never allow a man to control your emotions that way meaning yah he may be gone but life still moves on you have a child now that should not suffer because of you two not cool your baby needs nutrition so you should eat no matter how you feel the baby needs it it's selfish the way your acting you can still be upset and I'm not saying it's easy but you cant let it control You probaly are depressed but, try to put it out of your head do things to occupie your time don't bother with him for now concentrate on you and your kids he may come around sooner or later but he should understand that you are an emotional mess being pregnant I put my man through alot when I was prego but he stuck around through it all he needs to step up and be a man and deal with the rough times Yah know? Good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006):

really read what you just wrote smarten up and stop being so selfish you have a child coming into this world that is a blessing some people cant have any and a child that you need to ttake care of there are other fish in the sea if u let him see you squirm he will use it to his advantage if you really want him back act like you dont want him back get it ! then he will start acting like you

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