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writes:my boyfriend of two years has been treating me like crap and telling me he doesnt want to be with me anymore...then when i am packing and just about ready to leave he cries to me and tells me that he was just mad and that he is really sorry! i am pregnant with our 2nd child and i think that it is best to just stay w/him because i really DO love him..but i know that things cannot continue like this PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE THINGS OUT PLEASE!!!! :( Reply to this Question
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (11 June 2007):
 He may just be stressed out about having another child.
Has he been like this before?
I say sit him down and talk to him about it. Say you don't know where you stand which is even more emotionally difficult because your hormones are all over the place.
If things get more complicated, I suggest you take any ways that our necessary for the child's sake.
Talk to him. See how it goes. After all, you can't mind read his thoughts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): tricky one... i would advise he sees a professional counsellor to help him sort his feelings and thoughts, if there is excessive drinking or any drugs (soft or hard) involved then i'd get rid of those, this will help clear the thinking, you have to do what's right for the children and it's his choice wether he can moderate his behavior enough to create a stable surrounding for the little ones, if he can't then you're better off without him, good luck
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