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*aisylove
writes:ok so i am a lesbian and i am in a relationship with obviously a female and we have been sleeping together for over two years now. Our sex is like beyond awesome and i could not fault it only i'm the problem. Once i have orgasmed i simply cannot coninue. Its not that i dont want to i just physically cant i am not horny any more which is disapointing especially for my girlfriend. Although she claims it doesnt bother her i know it does as she wants more and i cant go on any longer. This is really getting me down as i dont feel good enough and i want to pleasure her and sometimes she cant even get to orgasam because as soon as i have thats it and although i try to continue i am just not in to it anymore and she senses that and we both stop. I just feel so selfish. I just want to know if anyone else experiances this? if i am normal? why i get like this? and if theres any way to stop it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011): Hey hun, don't worry you're not the only one! I am just like you. Once I've orgasmed, I can do anything, BUT sex. Usually, it'll be a good half hour before I'd feel horny again. I think most girls think that is "too long" because the "sex mood" will be gone by then.
What I do is, I let my girlfriend go down on me/make love to me first. Once I've orgasmed, I'll return her the favour, but I'll do it very veryyyy slowly so that she'd take longer to orgasm. The longer she takes to orgasm, the longer the time I have to "recover" from my previous orgasm. So by the time she orgasms, I'd be fit and ready for the second round. ;)
I guess the main thing is when you're making love to her, don't rush. Take it slow. The longer she takes to orgasm, the longer the time you have to "recover" that horny side of yours.
Good luck!
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reader, Daisylove +, writes (6 July 2011):
Daisylove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou so much i will definatly do that from now on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): Haha I have this same problem... but with a guy and my guy ahs this same problem...
Work on her longer so since u come faster, you should be second, so she will always be satisfied...or work on her before and then a little bit on you so you can sync...I hope I made some sense.
Basiclly just make sure you is way more stimualted than u so she cna get off first or at least at the same time as you or close.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 Am afraid there is no way to stop it no. All girls are different, some can keep going while others as soon as they reach orgasm they just want to curl up and go to sleep. The only solution I would have for you is to make sure that she orgasms first all of the time so that each of you are left satisfied in the end.
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