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*ayla20
writes:im pregnant and put off sex as it hurts my lower back and inbetween my hips is this normal?i no pregnant women dont tend to want sex when pregnant but thats not the case with me i do like to have sex but i get put off as i know it will hurt someone help please Reply to this Question
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reader, idetektiv  +, writes (7 October 2009):
 Congrats on being pregnant! Actually, plenty of women want sex during their pregnancy, so it's totally normal.
If it hurts to have penetration sex, have your partner give you oral sex, or maybe fingering, as it won't put as much into you as it would normally.
I'm pretty sure there are sites online about sex while pregnant, they might be able to help you more. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): i have had some of the best sex of my life while pregnant. The key is position. Experiment with different positions until you find what works. Use some creativity ;) woman on top works well. You can google sexual positions. Hope this helps. Good luck and happy nesting. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): Congratulations on your pregnancy!!!
Pregnancy is a time of changes for both partners, every woman's sexual desires change during pregnancy, whether more, less or none at all, but unless your doctor advises otherwise in cases of history of threat miscarriages, history of pre term labor, multiple fetuses, unexplained bleeding, leaking amniotic fluid, infection in either partner, or placenta previa where ur placenta covers or partially covers the cervix, then your sexual intimacy should be limited or none.
Pain in lower back an hips are normal but NOT really during sex, if u are past four months certain positions nay not be safe or comfortable.
You should avoid lying flat on your back cause the weight of your uterus puts pressure on blood vessels, try side lying or on top, rear entry may be comfortable. If u engage in oral sex your partner should not blow into your vagina that is very dangerous for both u an ur baby. Try limiting ur intimacy time from prolonged periods, communicate with your partner, if these dont work see your doctor.
you may feel contractions during or after orgasm it is different from labor contractions.
Important you should avoid sex during d final weeks or be very cautious semen contains a chemical that can stimulate contractions
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (7 October 2009):
 Lots of women still enjoy sex while pregnant.
You should try other positions and other ways to acheive satisfactuon that do not hurt your back or hips. Vibrators and/or oral sex could be helpful.
Good luck and congratulations on the pregnancy.
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