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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My guy prefers a woman to have no hair down there at all. We're not having sex yet, but of course I want to be the way he likes when we do start. He loves giving oral... I'm gonna be a happy girl, hehe. I like the feeling of being smooth, but I haven't yet found a way to remove hair that is practical and painless.Shaving down there doesn't work for me. The first time I do it everything's okay (more or less - I get some razor burn and it bleeds a little), but when I do it again a day or two later my skin is very tender and painful, bleeds a lot, I get ugly razor burn and the next day it's too sore to touch. I can never get rid of all of the stubble, especially if I shave with the grain, and it's not attractive in the least to look at. How do women manage to shave and actually stay SMOOTH, instead of red, bumpy and in pain???I've tried plucking, but always get fed up with it because really, I do not have six hours per week to spend yanking each hair out individually with tweezers. Plus, my hair grows like a frickin' weed. Several times I have actually plucked myself completely clean and the hair is all back within two weeks. Don't have the money for waxing, especially considering how often I'd have to have it done. (You women who actually have a wax last for six weeks, COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS.)I have not tried depilatories, although I've heard they don't always work too well. My hair is pretty coarse, which might make them less effective on me. I'm afraid to try them in case they'd irritate my skin or something.So yeah... I'm very frustrated right now. Is there ANY way that I can get rid of the hair and stay smooth? Sometimes I wish my guy just liked a nice, tidy trim... lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): I share your pain! I can shave my legs/underarms/down there etc, i can usually feel stuble at nighttime (if i do it in the morning, or in the morning if i do it at night).
I also can't wax, A) because of the cost abd B) it friggin hurts and i have a low pain threshold and C) I've done it before and i can usually feel stuble in about a week.
You could hair removal cream (get one designed for down there), i cant use it as it irritates my skin but it may be an option for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): Buy a decent razor a mens one they tend to have more blades. You may get a rash to start with but this dies down, make sure you moisturise afterwards. Also make sure that you are doing this for you not just for him, if its for you then go for it. But if its soley for him reconsider.
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