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writes:A while ago, I asked a question on here regarding a guy I like offering me guitar lessons. I decided to take the lessons, and I went to my first one last friday. It was fine, we got along, it wasn't awkward at all. I told my friends about it and decided that it would be best he didn't find out in order to keep my friendship with him.Turns out according to his best friend who told me he knew who I liked, the guy I like knows I like him, because his best friend found out from HIM.Apparently he has known for a while that I like him and I don't know how, but he hasn't said anything to me about knowing or anything. I know he isn't looking for a relationship so I'm not surprised but it bothers me a little that he hasn't said anything.I've been panicking all day since I found out he knows. I don't know what to do. I never handle these kind of things well. I've been shaking since I got home and all I can think of are the worst possible outcomes. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2013): You told your friends you like the guy and someone spilled the beans.
What do you think?????
Continue your guitar lessons and chill.
If he's too much of a wuss to tell you he likes you, just keep taking those lessons until he gets so comfortable that he will tell you one way or another. You're just 16 or 17; so this little game is just going to go on and on.
After a few lessons, just tell him that you know what he has heard. Stop being a baby and ask him what he thinks about you.
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