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30-35,
*iss-Morphine
writes:i was going out with this guy 'ray and i really like him. after 3 days of being with him, he tells me he kissed his best friend the 1st day we were together, and the same day he dumped me, i've been told because he thought i was going to dump him.i sort of came to the conclusion that he was only with me because he couldnt get with my friend hannah, while me and him were together my freinds had a boyfriend as well, but the same day he dumped me (before he dumped me), she found out her boyfriend had cheated on her, and dumped him.later that day, 'ray' dumped me, and the day after, he was all over 'hannah', but then she got back together with her boyfriend, and that night, 'ray' tried to kiss me again. the whole thing has got me kinda depressed, and ive ben confussed lately, because, a few months ago i came out as bisexual.I also have feelings for another guy, i have for a while now, but ive got no chance of getting with him, and i know it sounds as though i was only with 'ray' to get over this other guy, but i did really like him.what did i do wrong?and how can i get over this and just...be happy??
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): Dear Poster
I suggest you should just give yourself a break; don't get to involved with anybody at this stage; be friends but don't let anybody use you or take advantage of you; you are still very young and you are emotionally very confused; give yourself time to just enjoy life with lots of friends; when you have meet the right guy, somebody that you really like, get to know him well and then decide if you want a relationship with him.
Be happy within yourself, take good care of yourself; love yourself for who you are and value your friends.
Do FUN things with your friends and keep SMILING.
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