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Please tell me does this shy girl like me? Why is she uncomfortable around me?

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Question - (17 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2011)
A male Pakistan age 26-29, *ousuf Khan writes:

I like a shy girl and want to ask something about shy girls. Please read the following and tell me what this girl thinks about me.

So there is this shy girl whom i love and she knows this though i never talked to her about this. I have found her relax and comfortable around other boys but whenever i come near her, she gets uncomfortable and nervous. Her brother is my friend so i sometimes also go to their house. When i am sitting in a chair, she never sits near me but sits with other boys. One day my younger brother went to her house and he was watching a movie while the girl was sitting in an informal way but as she saw me coming, she quickly got up and sat in a very formal way. I have also sometimes noticed her looking at me and as i look back, she quickly turns her head and again give me a look to make if i am still looking her.

Please tell me does this shy girl likes me? Why is she so much uncomfortable around me? Should go to their house frequently? I mean will she think me like a time pass boy? How to get her?

Thanks a ton,

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011):

Hi, being a shy girl myself I would say that she may like you, but as you are her brother's friend she may not want to get involved as it may complicate things. I myself would never go out with any of my sibling's friends as it would put my sibling in an awkward position, but that is me. Being shy I found it was easy to talk to guys I didn't find myself attracted to, and found it very difficult to talk to anyone who I did find attractive. It's hard to say, but the best way would be to continue trying to talk to her, it may take some time to get her to feel comfortable, but if you really like her, I am sure that you can make it work. Good Luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011):

The fact that she is shy around you but not with others could mean she likes you as this is often the case. Or it could be that she doesn't know you very well. But how do you know she knows you like her? It's easy to think people know things when in fact they don't. Have you confided in her brother about this? He may be able to help.

Try making a bit of conversation - ask her a few things about herself but not too personal and try to keep it casual till she starts to relax. Hope it goes well for you. :-)

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