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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi I am from India...I got married in Dec 2008, It was a Love marriage..and me and my wife since 6 Years...As if I used to be a very very romantic with my wife before our marriage...but since our marriage I am not able to even Intercourse with her ..Cant no why? I Love her allot and don't want to lose her...but I normally do masturbation...but when night begins I seems to have no Interest I always make some excuse.. even my pennis dont errect with my wife....Please Help Me...Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): HOW IS SHE REACTING TO ALL THIS? please talk to her. maybe try thinking sexy thoughts about her, fantasining a bit and maybe this will work. if not there are pills you can take to get an erection. also speak to a doctor. but forst start talking to your wife. be open with her. it is not fair you are getting your sexual release from mastubation and she is getting nothing. and why hasn't she complained about this to you?
also do not only try doing it at night. its ok to have sex douring the dsy, play some romantic music, watch porn together, anything to get it up and anything to make it special for your wife. try caressing her, kissing her, being intimate. tell her to try giving you a blowjob/ handjob as well. and also donot only have viginal intercourse, try having oral sex with her- meaning yes, it is ok to go down on her. you need to try something, if she doesn't get it from you , she may want to go elsewhere so then you cannot complain.
good luck.
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