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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have always wanted to have a one night stand and i was offered the chance and i refused it. i can't believe it, i am so regretful for saying no. I have been years without sex and mad at myself for my boring sex life and I only got myself to blame. What is wrong with me? Please help me and tell me how to enjoy my sexuality more!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 If you find yourself saying no too often you need to practice saying yes!! That is the only way for you to get things rolling, if you keep saying to and being shy then you won't be able to get one night stands. If you only have yourself to blame then you know what you need to do the next time around. But use protection! One night stands are ok when you use protection only and have a certain judgment on who you go home with. Use common sense, don't go with a shady guy.
There's nothing "wrong" with you other than you need to learn to let go a little and live more, say yes more often, and gather the courage to do the things you want to. So jump in it with eyes closed and take a chance!
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