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writes:Im a junior at highschool yes im young but i have had a crush on my anatomy teacher, i used to just think he was an interisting humerous man untill my best friend(who had him for biology her sophmore year) confided in me and told me she thought he was extremely hot i was shocked i never thought him particularly handsome his is average height and strong built broad shoulders and i found out his birthday june 23 im pretty sure hes 49 he has incredible stories he travels extensively and owns three boats and often does wilderness treks everything i also wish to do, i am a gemini cancer rising and now i find him extremely attractive i cant help but to stare at him in class and daydream i consider myself to be a pretty intuitive person and im sure he notices my looks he will often look at me after speaking and pass his hand along my desk when he walks by i also sit front seat right by him obviously he is much older he is also the swim coach for boys and girls so he has many close relations with his swimmers which is disheartening because wish i had that ok so i dreamt that i went to his house with a friend(so i was very comfortable being there) and he told me how i reminded him of his ex wife who died(he isnt a widow in real life though he isnt married right now either) and we began to roll play wrestle on a large bed it was very flirty and the next time at school he slipped me a letter during a test asking if i was willing to give us a try and what type of relationship i was interested in having it was very exciting and i felt i loved him the dream ended when we were supposed to have a date what should i do? I was very sad to wake from my dream and wished it had really happened
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reader, artfaced +, writes (18 April 2010):
artfaced is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha thank you guys so much
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (17 April 2010):
Oh honey. This is just a rite of passage... I think if you ask pretty much ANY adult they will all tell you they had a crush on a teacher at some point in high school. Try to realize nothing will happen and then just enjoy your crush the way you would a crush on an unavailable celebrity. You will survive this, I promise - the rest of us did. :-) And if you are gemini I can promise this only the first of many many crushes you will have. Gemini's love variety.
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reader, Polaroid93  +, writes (17 April 2010):
Hm, I allways fancy teachers, it's so anoying!! But they're just phases and clearly can't be acted upon, despite you looking upto him without trying to be mean he probably sees you as an impressionable young girl and as he has traveled etc he would want to meet someone who had done the same. Teacher pupil relationships are pretty hot but just don't work in reality
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reader, rcn +, writes (17 April 2010):
 You are going to have so many influence during your life that looking at how you are now, you'd have a huge list of people you're dreaming about. Teens who fall for teachers, begins when your body changes, and hormones begin changing. It's a new way of appreciating those who impact your life in a positive way, but where it gets attached sexually and emotionally, instead of having only appreciation for their impact on your life. It's a way of self expression, or internally noticing your appreciation for what he brings to you. As you get older, you'll run into people who will touch your life in similar ways, but by then you will be able to separate what is an actual sexual attraction and what is an appreciation for their abilities and what you receive from them. So you're dreaming is normal. It's difficult now to separate those feelings, but that is part of growing up, and the separation will become easier.
I hope this helps, take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): NEWS FLASH, your 17 and hes 49. Forty fricking nine!! Anyway, it may not feel like it now but its just a teenage crush and you will get over it. We all go through them and eventualy get over it. Just dont do anything stupid that you will regret later.
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