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writes:I have recently split up with my boyfriend and have been left heartbroken, I just don't know what to do. I want to text him and sort things out, but I don't know whether that would be the right thing to do, because he might get even more annoyed. Any ideas? He told me he wants a break, so does this mean he dosen't ever want to talk again, or he just wants a break? I really can't understand boys sometimes. Thanks for your time to read this.Please Help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): He is only 13-15 int he?? he is sooooooo young. he probably just wants to sort his head out. there is no point being in a relationship with some1 if he doesn't know why is there??
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionomg thank you so much people you have reli helped i will follow each and everyone of your answers :D thanks once again Guys :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): You broke up, he said he needed a break, so don't bombard him with texts if he wants some space. If he wants to talk then he'll come to you, if he does want to talk then don't blank him, but don't bring the subject up of your relationship unless he does =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): Don't let him keep you on a leash. He wants a break, let him have it. Don't be angry about it, just try to stay cool. But don't wait for break to be over. At you age usually it means he got a little bored and looking for a new thrill.Really they are not worth it struggling trying to figure them out. Don't put guys on pedestal.
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reader, BigSis +, writes (15 November 2008):
 Hello my darlin', well, do any of us really understand boys? I know, they can be a real pain in the seating area sometimes.Just give him a little time my luv. Don't text him and see if he contacts you first. Try and hold back and find something to occupy yourself to take you mind of him for a while.In time he might start missing you and may call you when he's ready...but until then - I think you should leave him to it for a bit.Take care.BigSisxXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): First of all welcome to the club.Seriously speaking there is nothing to worry about.Sad news is you might not be able to understand them your entire life.Good news is there are definitely ways to cope up with them.
* When a guys says he wants a break be very pleasant about it.No tears,No emotions what so ever.No phone calls,No texts,No emails.He will be breaking his head wondering what's wrong with him that you didn't create a scene.If you are able to achieve that ,Goal one.
* Once he is in the confused state,when ever you meet him probably in the corridors of school act very happy.you might be crying with grief inside.Do not ever show it.Laugh with your friends unnecessarily
* Get good grades,participate in something that will make you popular and a darling of the masses.Heard of Aesop's Fox and the sour grapes?More love stories are based on that than Romeo and Juliet.
*The final goal that will cinch the match is find another guy.easier said than done.I completely agree.Make yourself strong.Any guy who doesn't value you and breaks your heart doesn't deserve to be there in your life.
If you love yourself you will become strong.The first step is to love yourself.High self-esteem is a must so that guys don't trample on our poor hearts and break it.
When a guy says he wants a break it means that he will do his own thing and leave you hanging.If things don't work out for him he might come back.Now that's a big IF.
I am going to ask you a question.Do you love yourself enough to forget the guy and move on.
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