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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My fiance is a truck driver and is gone except on weekends which means home Friday night or early Saturday morning and leaves on Sunday. We have had some problems in the last year but I thought we had worked our way through them but now he is joining sites where people have cybersex and looking up lots of pornography online. I have told him that I do not like it and it makes me feel betrayed but he always turns it around so that I am the one that feels guilty. Please help, I feel that our relationship is disintegrating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): I am the person who asked the question. I wanted to explain that I undestand his sexual desires and that I have been trying to give him what he needs in the bedroom it just doesn't seem to make a differance. He ignores our 2 kids and me. And about him getting another job is something he would never do he says he would not find a job where he makes as much money as he does now. We have been together for 4 years and he loves driving a truck he's been doing it for 8 yrs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): What an ass. He should understand your feelings and control himself.However, you also have to understand that he has sexual desires. It is unfortunate that he is away from you for so long, which is probably what stemmed this all.Perhaps suggest he get a job that does not require so much time away? Then maybe you two could work this out a lot better.Be more willing to do things with him in the bedroom. Let him know that you are there for him. If he loves you, he will give it up because it hurts you so badly. Good luck :)
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