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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we are madly in love.but one of his bestfriends seems like he likes me.I tried to hook him up with my friend but he wasn't attracted to her.its like whenever he is with us he comments on everything I do.even if he is in the cars front seat and I'm in the back he turns back and talks to me.once we"me my bf and him "went grocery shopping to go camping and I told my boyfriend to buy hot dongs and then suddely his friend said in my ear"so u like sausage"?I turned back and he was behind me really close to me.I told my boyfriend and he said his friend is always like that and it doesn't mean anything.he doesn't really want me to say things about his friend he told me that he won't bring his friend over when I'm there if I don't want him to.and he got really mad"this was brfore he left for a 6 month vacation"and my boyfriend didn't even go to say bye to the guy because he was mad.but now they guy back again.he talks to me a lot and when he talks to my boyfriend I he makes eye contact mostly wityh me than my with my boyfriend even yesterday I tried to avoid him and look at tv when he was talking but still from the corner of my eye I could see him staring at me.I just get that vibe from him that maked me uncomfortable.yesterday he came over to my bnfs place after 6 months of vacation and from the moment he entered the house he kept commenting on me and saying how beautiful I am and how much I've changed and kept asking me what I do where I work.and when he was leaving he said bye to me like 4 times and when he talks to me keeps on calling my name before or after his sentences.I told my boyfriend that I'm not comfortable around his friend and that if he wants he can come over but I don't want to be alone with him in a room.please tell me if I'm wrong this is going on my nerve I don't want drama in my relationship and don't want my boyfriend to cut his friends off for no reason. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): you are absolutely not wrong at all! That sounds like a really creepy man, and I hate the fact that your boyfriend doesn't even care how nervous that makes you! You should avoid being left alone in a room with him at all cost, I'm telling you the outcome will cause you misery if he is the creep that your instinct suggests. And you NEVER NEVER want to ignore your instinct on something like that!!
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