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*ioletSparkle
writes:perhaps you can help me to not feel sooo bad, I am really going down in the dumps now. Well, I have been in contact with this guy for around two months, only 4 actual dates, all very good, especially the last two, he seemed a bit shy but kind of taken, you know, when somebody looks at you when you are not looking (not your boobs, *you*). In the first 3 dates he was disclosing all kinds of secrets about his past and I was keeping a bit by myself, because it was time and he asked once again I finally confessed that I had a number of really bad men in my past, because I used to be too acceptant, but that changed several years ago. Together with that, I also suggested that I would have liked to wait for sex, and that I would have liked to know him better. We didn't even kiss, but he was kind of not keeping his hands in place, and he had booked this restaurant that was completely in the dark, so I panicked and I felt the need to tell him that.At the end he brought me to the station, and planted a very stiff one on my lips and left very abruptly, and now it has been two days and he isn't writing or calling, and all the other times he was writing only a few hours after the date. Do you think I freaked him out, or was he just looking for one thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): I can tell you he was only looking for one thing, and from everything you've written here it wasn't a "freak out" on your part, it was an "ass hole" on his part. If you want to wait to get to know someone before sharing such an important part of yourself with them, then you are definitely dodging a bullet when you told him that. That is the kind of guy that gets what he wants and uses you, never to actually fall for you.This is the only way to really appreciate the man who is turned on by finding someone who respects them self :] and giving in to a horrible man like that will do nothing but destroy your self respect-- Way to Go!! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): he was planning on using youhe just wanted sexhes not worth your time
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