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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:A month ago, me and my bf broke up because of some stupid argument.We were going to get back and he told me that he will tell me when his feelings get back.At that time he blocked me on a site for 2 days an I gave him the space he needed. He wouldn't text me but when he saw me face to face he would stop talking to his friends and instead turn and say hi to me.So I asked him to unblock me on the site and yes he did that. Finally his feelings were coming back, I could see them but yesterday I could not see him, some of his frends who are gurls asked him to go with them but he also refused because he had assignmnts to do.I saw him later and at the place where he was doing his work he was with his frend, a guy and the girls who asked him to go with them were also there, so when I went he was not there he went to the washroom and I see the other girl sitting next to his bag and her purse was also there.So I got jealous and left. Later I ask his friend who is a guy if the girl left, he said no they went out for a smoke then I contacted him and told him I know you are not doing ur work u are out, an then he starts blaming me that I'm spying on him so first I lied that I went down an didnt see him because I didnt want his friend to get in trouble for telling me.Then I go to him tell him the truth he gets angry because he thinks I dont trust him I told him I trust you but it was just because I was jealous, he still doesn't get it.he tells me he didn't sit on the sofa with the girl and instead on the chair and tels his friend to tel me the truth n yes it was true. If he didn't care about what I think? Y did he ask his friend to tell me werr he sat? He starts getin angry I leave and again he blocks me on whatsapp. When I texted him he tells me that he was being patient and that I should fuk of n shut up.My bf is a really angry person and his family and frends all know that. So his friend advised me to text him today and remind him of all good times we had and tell him it was a good relationship n stuff. So I texted him he didnt reply and now his friend told me that whenever I see him face to face I should ignore him. And this wil help him realise that he loves me and so he will start talking to me and come back to me.I'm feeling really hurt and I can't sleep and keep on crying the whole time. Can you please advise me on what to do? We both love each other but I duno why he is acting like that. How can I get him back? Yesterday, I texted him and reminded him of all the good things in our relationship and made it look like I was done with him. He was aslo trying to make me jealous with this other girl. When I went to the place where he was studying with his friend he told me hi and turned away but I jus looked at him without replying and turned away. Later, I went and started talking to his friend who he was working with but I did not talk to him. After that I went out with a guy, one of my friends and while coming back my bf started staring at the guy really badly until the guy who was with me was like your bf was staring at me like as if he wants to kill me. And then we passed and went straight , so he turned just to look at us and kept on staring at where we are going for long. The guy who was working with him told me he could see that my bf was feeling jealous. And now shall I continue ignoring him? Will he even text back? Can u please advise me on what to do to get him back? Thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2012): I can't help it and I can't live without him. It is killing me. Is there any way I could get him back? Please advice me how. He really loves but doing this I dunoo why yea ok its my fault. But he is very short tempered
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2012): Stop playing stupid games with each other. Seriously if a man told me to "fuk of n shut up" he would not see me for dust! I wouldn't waste any more of my precious time on a disrespectful man like that.
Stop making excuses about him being an angry person. He's not an angry person, he just has poor communication skills.
If you valued yourself a little more and stopped running around trying to get him to notice you, make him jealous etc you might actually meet someone who would value you too.
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