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*roubledalone
writes: i love my boyfriend so much..but my brother and my parents want me to go to canada when i turn 18..i don't want to leave him..and he don't want me to go too..but i really need to..i said that if he loves me..he'll wait for me..but he said if i really love him..i'll fight for what i feel..and stay here..it's hard for me..please give me some advices..i wanna die.. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, troubledalone +, writes (27 March 2008):
troubledalone is verified as being by the original poster of the questionugh..i know he's too immature..:c
thanks for the advice..
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): In your post you said that not only does your family want you to go to Canadabut you also stated that "you must go"!?! If it is really necessary for you to go....then I would go. If your boyfriend really really loves you, then it is he...who must let you do what is necessary and if he really loves you...then he would make arrangements to either go to Canada with you or follow you to Canada soon after you arrive there.Now for the stupid part of me.....If you choose to stay and not go to Canada....then you are one dumb ass girl who I can make do anything I want to. Once a guy can get you to go against your family and friendsHe pretty much can get you to do anything he wants under the guise of love.1. Girl, if you love me...then you will sleep with this guyso I can buy his car from him for cheap.2. Girl, if you love me...then you will prove it to me by doing whatever I request or ask of you.
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