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writes:I am 18 years old and i have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 11 months now. He is my first love. Everything has been perfect but recently i am getting other feelings. I wasn't a virgin when i met him but i am finding it difficut to continue the relationship as it is. I have feelings for his friend (we have had a bit of a history in the past before i met my current bf) and i am just so confused. We used to talk about how we were going to get married and have children ect but i don't feel as strong as that anymore. He is the most perfect bf in the world and i know its only logical to stick with him but i can't get the other feelings out of me. The other day we went on a break and i slept with someone else. It was ok but i feel so guilty now. He has non of the feelings i do so it makes me feel even worse. I don't know wheather to break up and get this "urge" out of me and have fun while i am young or stick with him. I never want to loose him and if i was only a bit older i would be the happiest girl in the world. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): Perhaps you need to read the posts by the folks who have disovered the love of their life cheating on them to understand the full scope of the choices you are making. You have no respect for yourself and that disrespect is showing in this question. It is NOT ok to cheat. It DOES do a lot of damage. Please consider what you are doing before making another decision about who to sleep with now that you been with (place name here) I apologize if this sounds harsh, but my spouse cheats on me, when I can't deal, I come here to feel like I can do some good. Please read the coments from those who are being cheated on, may change your life.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (23 January 2007):
 to me to be honest you cant get everything you want, be honest with youreself and him, if you care so deeply for him then youll want whats best for you both..if he is such a great guy then why are you holding onto him, when it seem you dont care for him as much as he does, you cant help how youre heart feels, and im sure you wants whats best for him too..look at reality other than ifs and wants.. do best by him and youreself if you dont love him, then move on, dont keep him stringing along thinking everything is great when it seems its not..be true to youre heart and mind.. because what you do in youre life impacts on others its not just oureselfs.. this probally aint what you want to hear but thats my opinion on it xxx A
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