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writes:Im a senior in high school and im starting quarterback,free safety and team captain for my high school varsity football team. I also have girlfriend she is sweet and beautiful, her and I have been sexually active, she doesnt know that i also have been having sex with another boy in school for the past few months, I broke it off with him, it didnt go well, and he is now threatening to tell my gf, family, the football team, and the rest of the high school, and this week college football recruiters are coming this week to see me, what do i do? people will think im gay if they found out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): Talk to your ex boyfriend, he is obviously very hurt over the bust up. I'd try and find a new guy for him to help get over you.
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reader, Mushgirl  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 Well frankly if you slept with some other guy regularly, I would say you either are gay or bisexual. Anyway.
I don't care whether you slept with a guy or not, what's bad is the fact that you were meant to be with someone else, aka your girlfriend. Maybe you should tell her before he does.
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reader, MissUnique +, writes (22 November 2008):
 Seriously. Read back your question.
"People will think I'm gay if they find out I'm sleeping with another guy."
I think you are a bi-sexual.
I don't know how you'll stop the guy the only way is..talk to him. Try and explain to him why it would be such a bad idea.
Good luck
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reader, jemmahardy +, writes (22 November 2008):
 ooooooooooohhhh dear,
well i'm sorry to hear this man.
i think alot of people will think the worst of you, even if your not! i would reason with him, be like.. if you do care about me, you wouldnt try to hurt me.
but if you are actually gay, but are just scared about coming out, dont be! you will see who your real friends are by seeing which ones stick with you no matter what sexuality you are, but if your not and this was just a bit of fun and experimemtation, i would consider telling your girlfriend if you still like her as much as you always have, as if you do think this guy is going to tell her, tell her a story that isnt as bad as he will make it out to be, dont lie, just underestimate - sure she will be angry, yet its better to hear it from the one she loves then some guy! just try not to get yourself in this situation again if you dont want the concequences to happen again! hope this helps :) xx
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