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writes:People are telling me to get rid of him but i just cant... i say to my self im not going to speak 2 him,,, or see him but i cant control my slef, i like him so much im so young and foolish but i cannt stop my self and the way i feel, im such a silly girl! but its not my fault should i follow my heart or break it !? *cry* x Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206 +, writes (16 May 2007):
 Okay, this will sound harsh but think about it and you'll know it's true. It's not that you can't get rid of him, it's that you don't want to. There's nothing physical holding you back from telling him to get lost and then sticking to your guns but something is telling you to hang on. Maybe you have a misplaced faith that you will get back together and everything will be wonderful or maybe deep down you feel like you deserve to suffer but neither of these reasons are any good. I can't tell you how to get rid of this guy because I don't think you want to so work on that first and then the getting rid of him part should come easy.
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