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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i have recently moved back in with my husband after he decided after 7 months of marriage he did not want to be committed and was not sure what he wanted. After giving him this time he wanted me back, he said he is sure he will not do this again and that there was no one else involved. Now so far, he has been out with friends and said he had to work Sunday and then also worked lates sometimes coming home at 10pm in the evening. I can't help but feel that there was someone else, i am not an insecure person, never have been, but i can't get this though out of my head. I won't let him touch me physicially as i am not ready and don't want him coming near me and told him i need more time as i was very hurt when he left me after 7 months marriage, i am not sure whether our marriage will work now as i feel i can't move on. please help
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reader, cd206  +, writes (16 May 2007):
 My first thought is that he wouldn't have asked you to come back if he was seeing someone else.
My second is that you deserve to feel hurt and betrayed and all those other things when you think of him.
My third is that you really need to do your utmost to push aside the above feelings and make your marriage work. It's not supposed to be easy and there are supposed to be times when you feel just like you do now but if you can't get over these things then your marriage can't work. It will be difficult and painful but it's your only option if you want your marriage to succeed.
CD
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