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writes: The questions is, if you had a choice between three people who were exactly the same, both in character and in looks, except for the size of their penises, one big - in this case big would mean the maximum that you can take without causing any pain (please give specs, girth and length?), one small - small meaning the minimum required for you to feel pleasure at all (specs?), and one medium - which would be the size in between the previous two - which would you prefer? I know... 'another' one of those dreaded penis size questions.The problem with most of these is that the answers given are quite evasive and doesn't really answer the question at hand - which creates even more anxiety for us guys. If the answers were open and direct it'll be a lot easier for us all.You all end up telling us how big guys with no technique is worse than a small guy who has technique - that's like sayin there cannot be any big guys out there who can also be a sensitive lover with technique.'Motion of the Ocean'? Again what if it was comparing two people who can both move the ocean real good equally the same but the only difference was their size?Another answer I hear is how it's no different than women obsessing over the size of their boobs - actually it is very different because boobs have nothing to do with the actual sex whereas the penis is a crucial sexual instrument.Another popular answer is one that begins by saying how size does not matter and then ends with saying "at least there's always oral" - I don't need to explain this one, lol.Other answers end up lecturing on how there are other factors come into play for women to have the best orgasms, that the man attached to the member is more important for women, and that penis size isn't at all something you ladies think about so much. Well, I do know that already, so I hope you won't have to repeat to me what I already know :)It seems to me that women are afraid to hurt the mens feelings too much. But by being so evasive it just makes it worse. And besides, men should respect that women are sexual beings too and that they too can have preferences like themselves - even if they don't match those standards.In other words ladies, I really hope for your open straightforward answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): If they were clones, as another person suggested, then I think I would want something in the middle. My partner is, to be honest, a bit too well endowed for my liking so sex is not always as enjoyable as it could be as it can hurt - a lot!! Small isnt good either from my experience but is probably better than it being too big!
Again as another person wrote, timing is everything. I really dont think it matters much in a relationship as other qualities much outweigh the penis size one however if it was a one off thing, I think the bigger the better! Women are gossips and would certainly gossip about how big and satisfying a man was, whereas they probably wouldnt have much to say if they were very small....
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): Thanks for the replies, they sound pretty honest to me. Though I admit the amount of responses are disappointing...
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reader, newbie  +, writes (31 January 2009):
May honest opinion on men penis size is not a definite one but its what I look for. I think that when a woman is looking for just a good time or just a sex partner he has to be well endowed and also has the ability to perform well. But when a women is looking for a man to build a long lasting relationship with size is not a big issue because he has some many other great qualities that her love for the guy will some how increase pleasure during sex. So size doesn't matter but timing does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): That's a tough one...I understand and agree with everything that you are saying when it comes to "those penis questions." If there were three identical people in everysingle way...let's say they are clones, and i had to chose which one i wanted and the only difference was indeed the size of their package i would probably go with the largest i could personally take. As for measurements i don't really know what gives me kicks as i don't have all that much experience in the matter. Anywhere between average (7 inches) to larger (10 inches) is nice.
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