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Part of me wonders if he's playing games with me...

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Question - (2 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2009)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I meet this guy online six years ago!!!! and i do care about him with all my heart, but there is a part of me that wonders is he playing games with me!!!! because he never says anything only that i repeat myself over and over and he hates it.I told him good bye!!! but i wrote him and told him i miss him. and he wouldn't talk to me for months and now were talking again.

he says we will meet the spring or summer!!! but really i have doubts in it because it told me it all before!!!!!

anyways i would like the answer to this so i can make the right decisions

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A female reader, Prinsesslexi123 United States +, writes (2 January 2009):

Prinsesslexi123 agony auntHonestly,

I personally think it is quite silly to have online realationships only because you can never know what their true personality is.

What i mean is this, he might tell you he is someway when really he is not. Online he may sound like a very sweet and geniuine guy when really hes not. You dont know what hes like with his friends either.

My advice would either to be drop this realationship because it just sounds silly being that you only talk online and i wouldnt feel comfortable meeting him in person because for all you know he could be a serial killer.

If you really dont want to drop it i would try talking to his friends online and finding out a little but more about the guy.

But thats just me because i like to know what i am getting myself into before i do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

if you love him, then you will wait for him...climb mountains and slay demons for him...as he would do for you. But if you dont dont love him or really care for him... then maybe you should aks yourself... are you playing games with him? goodluck.

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