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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:How do I deal with my coworkers who is telling other coworkers I'm lesbian and other coworkers about my other job? For the record I am gay and do have another job but its none of her business. I found out she lied n told some coworker I tried to date her, the coworker she told then told someone else, who recently told me. Never have I tried to date her, nor have I said I'm gay to anyone at that place so she doesn't know anything. She randomly talks about me to others but can't talk to me and I want to know why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2012): It sounds like this woman enjoys drama, and seeks it out at every opportunity. I've met plenty of people like this, and you just have to take what they say with a grain of salt. Don't give them the time of day. They'll soon get bored, and move on to someone else, once they see they aren't affecting you at all.
As for the lying about you trying to date her, my guess is she said that because she wants to date you. She somehow knows you're gay, and she's disappointed you haven't made a move. So now she's spreading a lie around that she wishes was the truth. She probably believes it herself.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 November 2012):
 I would quite honestly confront her and preferable with the person whom she told around, so she can't deny it.
If it continues I would bring it up to the boss.
Why does she do it? Because it's juicy gossip and it makes her feel like SHE is the center of everyone's attention.
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