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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for four and a half years and we have a daughter who will turn two in december. Today out of the blue he told me that he's leaving me and doesn't think he's in love with me anymore. We've been arguing alot over the past couple of months regarding his job as he's never at home. About a month ago he started changing, he became very secretive with his phone, started going out after work and became very distant with me. I've had a lot of health problems in the past few weeks and i've received no support from him.I live in a small town and have no friends or family and I don't know what to do now. I feel totally deserted. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I really feel for you and send you big hugs. Do you think he could of met someone else. If he has been argumentative and secretive over the phone calls it could be a sign. Try and get him to explain to you just what the exact reason is for this split. You both have a child so there will have to be some contact between the two of you. Do you have any family who you could maybe go and stay with for a week to get yourself pampered or just to talk to and keep your feet on the ground? You need to get involved with some groups, may child related to start with, then sort out a nightclass and get your life back on track.
I can't image how i would feel with this one. You are quite welcome to keep in touch with me if you need a friend on the other end of the keyboard. I just wish i could do more to help. Take care. xx
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reader, jack23 +, writes (10 November 2006):
 This must be hard for you to deal with right now, it seems hes not giving you the attension you need and deserve.
You should try talking to him and finding out whats caused such a drastic and sudden change. If you are argueing there must be some disagreements between you, it would be worth finding out the cause and solution to the arguements.
Maybe this will give you a better understanding of what the major cause to this fall out is.
I would also suggest taking up a hobbie that will allow you to be around and get to know other people. Everyone needs someone and its times like these you will be happy to have someone there to talk to
Hope the advice is useful :)
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