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writes:Okay, so I'm pretty confused right now.... I'm almost certain that my science teacher sees something About me, or fancies me for some reason. I've been noticing some pretty weird stuff going on between us lately... Anyway, here's some information of what he does-~When he walks around to all the lab tables to check on kids and how they're doing, he'd always come over to my desk almost every other checking and he would give me the sweetest smiles! Like, a kind and warm-hearted smile, not a perverted pedophile smile. And when he walks around, he often walks behind me and somewhat brushes the back of my body (like his front grinds into me on "accident"..)~When I had him last period, he would always talk to me when I was the only kid left in the class, And he would ask me the most random questions like "Where'd you get your email name from?" and sort of personal stuff like that...~I sware, this happens about maybe 10 times a day, I'll be doing work or taking a test, and EVERYTIME I look over at him, or even just not on my paper, he'll look away and pretend to do something, or he'll stare at me from an angle instead...~He always tries to seek me out in a crowd, and when he sees me he'll just pretend to do something else and stare at me for a while, then walk away...~On our last field trip, we stayed in a hotel and only the women/women chaperones stayed on the fourth floor (guys were on the fifth) and the girl chaperones were supposed to give wake up calls to all the girls on their floor. Well, my teacher somehow at 5:47 in the morning (much earlier then our wake up call...) comes down to our floor, knocks on the door, and my friend answers it. She's all like "Mr. ____ what are you doing here?" and he's like "Oh, just giving you guys your wake up call, because the DEATH alarm is going to go off if you don't hurry. Are you guys packed!?" and he looks inside to our [super messy...] hotel room. Then he's like "HOLY CRAP!" and I'm starting to wake up now, so I'm kinda in the corner of the room just like "Wh-Wha-...?" and that's when he just walked RIGHT into the room, maybe one foot from the door when he heard my voice. I couldn't really tell who it was at first because I was so tired, but then my friend told me about the entire situation...~Not only that, but a few times when we're doing projects or something he'll put his arm around my shoulder or like one time, we were shooting off catapults and I shot mine off and got scared, jump back, and fell into his lap, he just kinda caught me... it was real awkward in my opinion...~Sometimes I'll stay after school by myself and talk to my homeroom teacher because we get in these long elaborate conversations, and I'll notice him following me sometimes...the sad part about all of this is, I think I'm in love with him... it all started the beginning of the school year. he was passing out papers and i was sitting the wrong way in my desk, and he tripped and didn't want to step on my foot [his shoes are like, real sharp... its weird...] and he just like slammed his hand onto mine and stood there staring at me for like 6 seconds straight, blushed, and let go of my head saying "Oh, uh, sorry I didn't mean to do that I apologize" with a really red face...oh yeah, and another thing that happened was on our last field trip, i kept buying all these lollipops [my all-time favorite candy], and i was outside by myself, and he passes me, turns around and says "It seems everytime I see you, you have a lollipop of some sort..." and I'm just like "Well, I like them, they're delicious!" and i couldn't tell what he said, but he mumbled something under his breath and smirked, then walked back to the charter buses. when i told my friends that, they just laughed.... well, anyway thats basically it. I fancy my teacher, and I don't know if I'm over-reading things, but I believe he may fancy me, or be interested in me in some sort... any advice? Thanks!!!xoxoHaNnAh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): Please try to avoid one on one situations with this teacher. Temptation is difficult to ignore and if he does like you and you like him, this could end very badly for the both of you.
If you truly love your teacher, do not instigate any sort of relationship with him. You will cost him his job, quite likely his freedom, and if he is married his family. Please try to find someone your own age who is deserving of your attention and romantic advances.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): You have great fantasies and a real talent in writing. Just give more care in the future to details, and give it even more significantly to 'logic' in order to give a better impact.
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reader, KateMcL  +, writes (20 January 2010):
 Well, from what yu have said he might actually fancy yu (: .. but be careful though,he could just being really really polite, but he does seem to think highly of yu, and i kno the feeling im like inlove with my maths teacher (;
Just see how it goes,mayb sometime confront him,and just ask him out for coffee sometime :)
Good luck xxx
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