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writes: I always kind of wondered about this...they say a sign of cheating is a low desire to be with you sexually or a big decrease in it. What in specific does that mean..does that mean--you dont sleep with them at all for one week? is that when you should see a red flag? Or is a decrease in maybe the number of times you used to do it altogether..like months ago--my b/f and i only see each other like 3 times a week..there were plenty of times on that first nite--we would sleep with one another like 2 times. Now our schedule has somewhat changed..sometimes on that first nite we wont at, we will go to sleep..and then the second nite we usually will--once--twice sometimes..i guess maybe its not as much but is this normal after a year and a half..do i consider that a drastic change? When is it a sign--when it realy really decreases? There are actually times when i have wanted to have sex (didn't say anything) and we just kind of fell asleep..he seemed to have more energy months ago so maybe that has more to do with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006): It seems to me you are obsessing over this, you say that sometimes you wanted sex but did not say anything so you fell asleep together...if you want to have sex, try intitiating it yourself, and see what happens....of course a change in work schedules and tiredness can affect the number of times per week you have sex, and sometimes as s relationship settles in after a year, sex may decliine because you are just at that comfort zone level....if there are no other signs that he is cheating, if your intstincts are not going crazy, then I think you have nothing to worry about....just keep things interesting by being a bit more romantic or fiesty with your man...sex starts in the brain remember, show him you want him.
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