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writes: Hey Dear Cupid Agony Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend a little over a year now, and things have always been really shaky with us. We argue everyday and sometimes the arguing gets on a "near breakup" level Although neither of us will let it happen. We see eachother about every other day and I'm begining to believe that this is turning into a really unhealthy relationship, mostly for him. We both love eachother so much but I want him to be happy, he continually says he is, but how can aruging every day make a person happy? Anyone? Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (6 November 2006):
 I am in a similar situation to you and it seems that you must work out why you keep arguing. The reason I have problems with my partner is because of his promiscuous past and this leads me to argue with him because of the resentment I feel towards him.
I know it can seem like there's no point in going on and to be honest, if its got that bad, there really isn't. You need to get to the bottom of the problems and sort them or let him go. These problems don't just go away so don't waste anymore of your time on this if it's going nowhere.
If you're both just getting bored and frustrated and there's not real problem, try and get that spark back by doing some romantic stuff. Maybe see a counsellor to see if there are any underlying problems within the relationship, like hate, jealousy or resentment. At the end of the day, you can't continue this way. Sort this out or move on.
Good luck
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