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*oungmum89
writes:i dont really no what to do about this, ive been with my bf for 2 yrs now everything has been great i have a son he has a son for someone else, but our relationship doesnt seem to be going anywhere, he wont have a baby with me were both working not like we wont be able to cope, we havent even moved in together yet. he's not that close with my son whose 6 he should be by this stage i think, i love him to bits dont really want to break up with him but its starting to annoy me a bit.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (14 October 2011):
 Well you simply have to talk to him and tell him how you feel - explain that you feel after 2 years your relationship should be moving forward and you want to talk about your future together.
Have you ever had a conversation about the future? Have you asked him if he wants to get married one day? Or have more kids? How he feels about moving in with a girlfriend? These are all important questions that you need to ask him, you need to figure out if you both want the same things from life.
Dont make it feel pressured like you expect it all right away - just have a casual conversation and make it clear that you are talking about the future rather than wanting this right now. Once you have spoke to him about it then you can decide what you want to do from there.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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