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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:while on a night out last night, everything was goin well, my boyfriend was telling people how much he loved me, how good i looked etc and i was so happy. that was until the end of the night. At the end of the night he disappeared, ignored my phonecalls, started shouting at me when i found him, then when a friend of mine told him to calm down and stop beiing so mean to me, his words were "tell your friend to sort her head out who does she think she is talkin to me like that?" i said thats rich, when you listen to how he was talking to me and he replied "i can talk to you however the **** i want!!". He finished it and left me to walk home alone, at 3am with no money and no coat.He was really really drunk and this came out of nowhere. Weve been together for 2 years, we have a strong relationship and i thought we were happy. we made up and got back together today, but im still bothered about it. i love him so much, but he makes constant comments about my weight, he always falls out with me when hes had a drink and hes not very affectionate.This makes him sound terrible but hes a good guy, he looks after me, buys me things, hes gorgeous, we can talk about anything, hes literally my best friend.its complicated. basically we talked about what things were going wrong in or relationship and promised to each other to work it out. but its been 2 years and i dont feel special to him anymore. this has made me realise how many things are wrong in our relationship and i dont know what to do about it. i love him so much, but he doesnt make me feel wanted anymore. i know he loves me, i just see couples who have been together longer who cant keep their hands off eachother, and thats what i want. i want to feel wanted and loved but he doesnt make me feel that way. i dont know what to do. i dont want to lose him. i just cant be really happy unless he makes me feel happy. i hope this makes sense to anyone reading.
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