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*upersofi
writes:hi there can someone give me some advice please?I am on a relationship with a younger man and my problem is that he is constantly telling me that he would have sex with this or that woman.I make excuses for him telling myself that this is how blokes talk to each other... the problem with that being I am his partner not one of his mates...I am doing my best to ignore this but as he makes statements like this almost every day... it is affecting our own sex life and slowly wearing me down.Any advice? Please helpThanks
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (10 December 2007):
 Just how much younger than you is he? Is he still in his 20's? It sounds like he is very immature and just trying to prove to you what an accomplished "swordsman" he is.
I would simply tell him to stop being a prat and show you some respect.
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reader, supersofi +, writes (10 December 2007):
supersofi is verified as being by the original poster of the question I would like to say thank you to Serenity and I may indeed try that, a relationship is a two way process. As for speaking to him, he has a problem with not being perfect!
I would also like to say thank you to Peoriaman, it's great to receive a male perspective on this question. I did believe that this was some sort of male thing but now I can see more clearly that even for a male this behaviour is unacceptable.
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reader, Serinity  +, writes (10 December 2007):
 I would tell him that it's disrespecrful and degrading to you and you would appreciate it if he would stop. If he does it again after you ask him politely to stop, then I would cut him off from all sexual activities and I would tell him that when he is ready to consider your feelings, you will consider his sexual needs. Point blank. If it bothers you and you let him know that it bothers you, then he should have enough respect for you to stop. If you continue to let him do it without saying something then he will never know that it bothers you. Why though? Why not tell him if it bothers you? For the sake of argument? I know guys are going to glance at other women, but to make comments like that infront of a spouse or partner is just rude and I wouldn't tolerate it.
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