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writes:I am a 14 year old girl in eighth grade. I go to a Catholic school, and my priest is an absolute creep. He is the type of guy that if u saw just walking down the street you would notice something sketchy about him. Lets call him Fr. B. He has this really cute dog and he comes to the playground during recess (grades 4-8 go out to recess at the same time since the school is really small) with his dog. Funny how he brings his dog over knowing all the little kiddies will flock to him to pet his dog. And if he ever comes to visit us after church when we are crossing the parking lot to go back to school, he will come up to you and rub your back or rest a hand on your shoulder. Once during Confession, my friend was confessing to him, and he moved a stray piece of hair behind her ear and rested his arm on her chair behind her back. And he is always making comments about how our teacher looks attractive (our teacher is a dude). When Fr. B rubs the girls' backs, he always feels the part where our bra straps stick out. One time when a litle girl fell down in the playground, he helped her up and kinda tousled/played with her hair when she got up. Point is, hes a freak and i dont want him touching me. Ever. I told my mom but she thinks im exaggerating just because i dont like him. my principal is a bitch and worships the ground he walks on, so she would be mad if we said anything. it feels like the only person who would speak up is my teacher, because he is the only one who sees his creepiness. i would feel extremely uncomfortable telling my teacher this because hes a man and i dont want to inform our male teacher about our priest feeling us up. please tell me what i can do!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): i agree vintage, the day a kid doesnt trust a priest with a dog....the creepometer is in top working order. i dont think she is trying to destroy the priest ...just protect herself. and that is the most important thing of all in my books. mal. i have a 13 year old daughter. and there is a man we know that she doesnt trust. i trust her creepometer. it so happens he is a leader in our church....so what. i will never leave her in a vulnerable position with him. i havent gone ballistic, but i will be very watchful. mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): I have learned how to spot creeps even online, because creeps are so creepy that their creepiosity can be detected electronically, if you find yourself falling for it run their words through a electromagnetic word creepmeter and bs detector and see if what they say or do is off the chart. So I would say, if your creepmeter is beeping loudly, you should trust that and stay away from him. Creepmeters will rarely steer you wrong, I sense that yours is in very good working order
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): always always always trust your feelings. even if you cant put your finger on it exactly, trust your feelings and never ever be alone with him. i dont know if there is anything more you can do , but keep your distance and watch him. dont allow him to be alone with a young child if you can help it. drag a friend with you and stay near. i have a family member who was molested...and it was by a trusted church friend. the robe doesnt condemn nor protect him. so just be careful. mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): I agree with Q always trust your gut instinct in life, it doesn't normally let you down.
Stay away from him as much as you can.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 March 2010):
 You told your mom, now you can just let it go. Stay away from him if he creeps you out. Problem solved.
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