A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: I am 13 years old.I have been going out with this guy for almost 3 months now.I really like him and things have been going pretty good lately.The only problem is that my best friend in the whole world absolutely hates him!It didn't bother me so much at first because she barely even talked about him and when I did she didn't mind so much.But now she gets mad at me when I try to talk about him,and I don't know who else to talk to.That's not all though,she is constantly saying how he's gay and insulting him all the time.I keep asking her to stop and when I do she gets mad at me.I'm really getting tired of hearing her insulting my boyfriend.At the same time though,she is a great friend and I don't want to lose her.But she keeps telling me to dump my boyfriend and she is always yelling at him.I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me,but I can't help getting scared that maybe he will finally think it is just to much and he will break up with me.Then,my friend would be happy and I would be sad.I don't want to lose my best friend but,I don't want to lose my boyfriend.And if my best friend keeps yelling at my boyfriend then it is more likely that he will break up with me,right?I'm just confused and I don't really know what to do.Like I said,I don't want to lose my best friend but I really don't want to lose my boyfriend either.So,please help.I need advice.What should I do? Thank you ^^
View related questions:
best friend Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! |