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writes:So I'm separated for over a year and there is this guy who I know who has been separated as well for about a year. We've known each other in the past through mutual friends but barely ever spoke. I was on Facebook 4 nights ago and he commented on my status. So I messaged him to say hi. 4 days later we have been talking pretty much non stop. Since we are both going through a separation the connection brought us together. And we started off by talking about that but found out we have so much more in common. Last night the conversation got pretty intense and we both admitted theres a definite attraction there and we think we really like each other. I haven't seen him in 2yrs. We are going out for dinner on Friday. I'm so nervous and really don't want to screw this up. Any advice? I know I should play it cool but every part of me just wants to jump on him and make out. And I can't get him out of my head. And from the sounds of it he's feeling the same way. Although I admitted my feelings a bit to see if he reciprocated I never told him just how crazy he actually is making me. Please help. How do I know this isn't a game for him? How do I control myself and still have fun? Sex is off limits for a first date but what about making out? And again let me say our connection seems so much deeper than physical. We've been talking nonstop for 4 days about everything under the sun for hours at at time.
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (8 May 2013):
Wow! Ok intense question. I have to say you guys are adults, your not kids you both know what you want............in saying that I don't think you should jump into bed with him. Having a conversation over the chat lines is more freeing than in person. It is easier to say things on a chat line then seeing a persons reaction and your comfort level. I think you should go out and have a great time. Only you know what your needs are. You have to feel good about ourself the next day.
Good Luck and have a great night!
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