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writes: Hello! I’m having a problem with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up 5 months ago and have only talked like 3 times within it. The last time we talked we got into a huge fight and that was 2 months ago and haven’t talked since. Within the 5 months have been nothing but chaos. I found out that he cheated on me, hid things behind my back, lied to me, and got a new gf extremely quickly after we broke up from a 3 year relationship. He didn’t even give himself time to heal or to get over me. He even believed that when my grandpa died and I called him for support, that I was trying to get him back together! I thought that was sick! That was the last thing on my mind at the time.My problem is that our mutual friends that still talk to him, tell me all these things about what is happening with him. Well the other day, she talked to him and he was talking about how he feels bad about how we broke up and he hopes that I am happy. He also said that he knows that I’ve been talking about him and he’s not mad at that anymore. He does not even mention all the things he did to me...like he’s blaming it all on me and he did nothing wrong! My question is, should I talk to him and get this matter all cleared up? I’m so stressed out from all this and I feel bad that my friends are in the middle of it all, even though I don’t ask for them to tell me or find anything out. Please tell me what you think? Thanks so much!!
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reader, saphfire915 +, writes (17 November 2005):
thank you so much for your response! it definitely does help!
i finally got my answer from him too. my friend talked to him again and told him that we should talk civilly and to work things out. he told her no, that i burned that bridge a long time ago! hes the one that lied, cheated and hid things from me...but I burned the bridge! and he just told her the other day that he wasnt mad at that anymore! hes such a loser! im so done with him now!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2005): Hi friend, i was in the same situation before. His best friend as well as my friend too tried to contact me many times via email saying that i lost the best gift (My BF) in my life and so on. I ignored because the more i used to try to forget him my friends used to remind me about his whereabout but i clearly told them to stop talking about him . If not, i will stop having contacts with them, trust me it worked, from then onwards they never ever spoke to me about him and i'm free from his thoughts. Neither they talk about him nor i ask about him. I hope this has helped u a bit.
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