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writes:Okay well where do I begin?I'm 14, and no I'm not going to ramble on about how I am in love because that would be naive... I just have extremely strong feelings for this guy. It started in 6th grade, he told all of his friends that he really liked me and what not. I didn't feel a thing from him. In 7th grade, as I got to know him... basically I fell for him. We went out for about 2 years and we liked eachother A LOT x 1380231809128308. Then, his ex girlfriend and him started talking again. I couldn't even beleive that he would start speaking to her again because he just knew how much I didn't like her, and we have fought over her before but he always told me he loved me and wouldn't ever like her again. And I am not going to lie... she wasn't too pretty, so this made me even more mad because I know Eric, (My ex) and I could tell he began to like her again. Although he always told me he has never had such feelings for a girl until he met me, basically I thought it was all bullshit. And I turned out being correct, he did start to have feelings for her. And so me being me, I broke up with him. I haven't ever been so hurt before. I can not even explain it. What is so rude is he did not even apologize because after we broke up he didn't even act like he cared at all and began talking to his ex... they liked eachother. Until a few days ago I thought that they were still "together" but it turns out he told my friend he's completely over her and his feelings for me never stopped. I am not going to lie, and I know I'm young, but what we had... was something special. I never stopped liking him, and I thought this whole time I had been the one with these feelings, I felt like an outcast because I was sitting here with my heartbroken as he is beginning to have something with another girl who I despise. It just hurt... but it turns out like I said before he never stopped having feelings for me. And it is like right when I was beginning to get over him, he started iming me and whatever trying to make convo and I just didn't go along with it, I pretended as if I was over it. But really, I miss him but if we ever begin to be friends again I'm terrified if he will ever hurt me again... And our love really hasn't ever died. But I don't even know what to do anymore. Advice? PleaseSorry this was so long.
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reader, natnatxxx  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 Sorry, but it sounds like love to me!
I had the same problem, but i have yet to decide whether to get back with my ex or not too.
Playing hard to get obviously didn't get you anywhere, and you need to tell him how you feel.
I no its hard, and it's like going back with you tail between you legs looking like a right idiot. But, it helps, getting it off your chest will help, even if not to him atleast tell a trusted person in your life.
Unfortunatley, i cant tell you what to decide. But if you dont let him no, you may regret it so just go ahead, telling him doesn't mean you get back together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankssss :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): Get over him sweety. You don't deserve heartbreak like he gave you. And he doesn't deserve you. If he really "loved" you he wouldn't have intentionally done anything that would hurt your feelings. You are young, there will be PLENTY of time to find that perfect guy and right now this guy isn't it. Try to direct all this focus on improving your own life and doing good things for yourself. Plus, you've heard that guys dont' mature as quickly as girls right? It's so true. Guys at this age aren't worth your time. Wait it out, it'll be so worth it. Good luck!
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