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writes: Hi I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and a bit now and I know we are deeply in love. We can't get enough of each other, but the only thing is recently we have been having arguments about stupid things, like I don't want to give him a lap dance. He gets annoyed but not violent. I'll go off in a strop and we always just feel crap by the end of the night. It makes me quite depressed and it really doesn't help as I already have many stresses from my college life. PLEASE help me. I'm begining to feel depressed!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (21 April 2005):
 Are the things that you are arguing about stupid? Perhaps they aren't to him or even really to you. It seems you may need to discuss a few things when you both have a quieter moment and uncover any issues you both may have.You need to be able to enjoy each others company and not get bogged down with arguing.I would suggest giving each other the chance to view what you are feeling. For example, allow each other half an hour to get anything of your chest and the other person must sit and listen intently without interrupting.You could also select a certain word that you can both use when an argument does begin to stop it going any further.Arguments can occasionally be a symptom of resentment and upset in a relationship that needs to be resolved. You can only do this by talking so give it a go.
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