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writes: I went a bit far with my ex boyfriend. When he fingered me I bled. Does this mean I've lost my virginity?? Will I bleed again if I have sexual intercourse? My boyfriend keeps reminding me about how it would be like on our wedding night.. The thing is, how can I stitch my self back up? Please help me as I'm hopeless :(
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reader, princess1432  +, writes (9 October 2009):
You definitly still are, some bleed for the first couple times of REAL sex, so i wouldnt worry about it. And on top of that some dont bleed at all. Your seal can break from at tampon of just from getting older its not a big deal. Your virginity is though so be careful who you give it to. Its more about the phycological aspect than the physical you need to be concerned with. give it to someone you love who won't heart you (no shit right) or a good friend that way its going to be a memory youll look back fondly on and not a heart break
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): This happened to me too. I'm asking myself the same question. But then, I think to myself...."We never had intervourse." I think me and you are still virgins but if you want to make sure, then I'd go to your doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): I've been in that situation before too. My boyfriend fingerbanged my ass once - I didn't bleed, but it felt good, so I thought I'd lost my ass virginity. But then I prayed and prayed and now I feel like I am a total virgin (all three holes) all over again.Remember - Prayer heals all wounds! Lots of love and God bless,Judy : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2006): yea you definitley still are a virgin. this has happened to me a couple of times but it really hurt and i didn't particulary wna bleed when i had sex! but i wudnt worry he probably just tore the layer of skin, no big deal so ur definitly still a virgin!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2005): You definitly still are, some bleed for the first couple times of REAL sex, so i wouldnt worry about it. And on top of that some dont bleed at all. Your seal can break from at tampon of just from getting older its not a big deal. Your virginity is though so be careful who you give it to. Its more about the phycological aspect than the physical you need to be concerned with. give it to someone you love who won't heart you (no shit right) or a good friend that way its going to be a memory youll look back fondly on and not a heart break
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2005): Yes, I HOPE you're still a virgin, because this happened to me recently and that is the answer I recieved from all my friends. I believe that you are a virgin until his penis is in yur vagina. period.
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reader, LoveDoctor +, writes (14 May 2005):
He will have just torn it (the thin layer of skin that breaks when you have sex) and by the way do you really want blood on the silk sheets on your wedding night ?
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reader, curtis +, writes (27 April 2005):
Yes your still a virgin. you only lose your virginity if you have full intercourse. If hes pressuring you into having sex by saying it will be like your wedding night then he isnt worth it. wait until you meet some one who wants you for you not ur body x x x
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (21 April 2005):
 You are still a virgin and will remain so until you have intercourse. You may bleed but it isn't anything to be concerned about as it is normal so please do not worry about this. In terms of stitching back up, do you mean literally?? Again, do not concern yourself with this. If your partner is gentle and loving, then any discomfort will be minimal and there won't be any need to 'heal' afterwards. Take your time with this and try to be relaxed. It will be fine when the time is right.
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reader, Kmoney18 +, writes (21 April 2005):
Well, from a guys point of view, Yes you are still a virgin. Chances are your boyfriends penis is larger than his finger and if his finger made you bleed, you can almost count on bleeding when that moment arises. Stitching yourself back up is something that is just going to take time, if your boyfriend really cares enough about you, then he will let you have the time you need to heel.
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