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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I luv my girlfriend of 4 years evean though we've had problems all this time. it has been a long distance relationship for most of the time, mixed with problems of cheating, lieng, you name it we had. Because of all this the relationship was filled with much pain, but somehow we stuck together for that long upuntill recently we got into a fight over the phone and I called her bitch once again only to apologise the next day after realising what I had done..This time it doesnt look like she's going to forgive me evean though she had hurt me too..after a few days she tells me shes got a newman, didnt believe it at first upuntil the newman came to her phone and told me not to bother her girlfriend..I'm hurt and I really want her back, this guy played on my weeknesses. any suggestions
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): i agree. this clearly was never really a healthy relationship and you should focus on meeting someone that will only love and respect you as you should do the same for someone else. you should really just let her go. niether of you are right for each other and it will only lead to a constant life of unhappiness for both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): NO, NO, you have to let this one go; this relationship is not good for either of you;
From what you have decribed, there is no hope or future for a happy normal relationship; You have wasted 4 years of each others lives with lies, cheating and what ever;
Enough, MOVE ON; let her be; accept that she has somebody else; DO NOT iterfere in her relationship; allow her to be happy;
Get out there, find yourself somebody that you can be happy with;
Learn from your mistakes and MOVE ON;
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