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*aptain Nimrod
writes: I am in love with a widow with two young daughters - the girl is wary of showing love to me and is frightened of how her daughters might react - how should I best approach her and the two girls? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): Your best approach is to be the best thing that ever walked into their mothers world...and let them see it..But Mom has to be working with you on this...Her concern for the kids is natural .when Mom is happy the children will come on thier own...but they must come to you on thier own terms, and that can sometimes take years...You must be prepared to be infinately patient.
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