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16-17,
anonymous
writes:I am a female lifeguard at a private neighborhood pool. I am writing about a boy lifeguard who works with me. He and our supervisor are flirting but mostly she seems interested in him. She is 20 and he is 17 so I think that is illegal. She touches him a lot like supposedly to put on suntan lotion but she does not do that for anyone else. I have seen her touch his butt when she thought nobody saw. He is always getting boners and tents up his swimsuit when she talks to him. But he does that lot anyway and has to jump in the pool which I guess the cold water calms it down or whatever. He is a good lifeguard and he knows all about CPR and first aid and is a good swimmer. I am not mad at him. He does his job and he is popular with the members. But I think our boss is wrong to be all over him like a piece of meat. He never complains and I guess he likes the attention. I asked him what he thought about her and said she is “great” so I guess he does not feel harassed. Or maybe he does not know better. Should I report her to the pool board? Will that get him in trouble? I don’t want that. I get why she likes him. He is very cute, brown hair, blue eyes. He is not a bodybuilder but you can see all his muscles really nice and defined. I wish he was my boyfriend. But he should be off limits to her. And yes I do like him myself so maybe I am just jealous. I don’t think they are having sex but I don’t know. There are chances for that obviously when he is on break. But I don’t want to start a rumor so I would not say that. I only know what I see. Oh yeah our supervisor’s mom is on the pool board so I am not even sure she would get in trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2023): Yousaid it yourself - And yes I do like him myself so maybe I am just jealous.
Keep out of this. It's not your beeswax.
You like the boy who likes a slightly older young woman. Learn to deal with this, becauuse that's what sometimes happen in life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2023): In my personal opinion you are way too interested in this guy's personal business. If he gets lucky with his supervisor that is his business. It may not be smart, but that is his choice. He may be barely legal, but you don't even know for sure what they have and have not done. If you are not careful you may unfairly damage his or her reputation. If this is as obvious and scandalous as you seem to think, the members of this pool club or whatever it is can make the appropriate complaints. He is old enough to stick up for himself as well. Some here may disagree with me, and that is fine. It is good to get different points of view. Personally, I think you have the hots for him and you are jealous he is not paying more attention to you. You at least have the integrity to admit you are jealous so I give you points for that. If you really like him, be pro-active and flirt with him yourself. It seems like he is a horndog and an easy mark. Just gather up your confidence and do that stuff you girls do and push his buttons. You may think he is amazing and not interested, but most guys love attention from a girl and you may be suprised. Remember, honey catches more flies than vinegar. Not sure totally what that means except try to be more sweet. Good luck to you.
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