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writes: my partner has just left me with no explanation we had a fall out but usually make up but this time he would not speak to me and avoided coming home when i was in. we are exprcting a baby in march and he wont speak to me or contact me not even about our baby i have moved back to my mums but he does not have a mobile any more so i cant contact him i have tried talkin to him but he walked away from me and told me to leave him alone i have posted him a letter but he still wont talk its an emotinol time anyway as my hormones are all over. i dont no what to do i love him so much but im not sure how he feels about me. has any one any suggestions to what i can do Reply to this Question
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (10 October 2006):
 when we are pregnant we think we are the only one in the world....we forget that HE is also dealing with the issues of fatherhood....responsibility....manhood.....
Sex is easy....but all the stuff that comes with it is hard...welcome to why your parents worry.
Some guys just can't deal with it and they truly do walk away...and leave you to figure it out...now your a burden on your family and he's footloose and free....thus family's push for marriage before making babies.
The only thing I can say is if you chase him he will run faster. Keep the door open if you want to....but at this point if he does not come to you...you cant make him. And don't start using the baby to talk to him...if he wanted to know...he would ask. Maybe once he's had some time to think and stop freaking out...he will take that step...maybe not. Hope for a future together...but plan on doing this on your own.
that way if he shows up...you have shown him you are a capable person for his partner...not a wilted flower awaiting trampling.
This is probably not what you want to hear but it is what you need to hear. I wish you all the best luck and thank your mother every day for being so good to you. Even if YOU think she's being a pain.
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