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writes:So... I'm not new to any of this so I found it a bit strange.I was giving a guy a blowjob and everything was going great. You could tell he was enjoying it but it was going on forever so I kind of stopped. I was then told that "It was fantastic but too intense I couldn't blow"Like I said i'm no stranger so that reply kind of shocked me. Help!
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reader, Debonaughty  +, writes (5 July 2013):
Blowjobs are often too intense for me. It's like a massage that's too hard, or probably like directly rubbing too hard on your clit with the hood pulled back. The feelings are good, but they're too strong to cum or really enjoy properly. The tongue and the mouth in general are a lot rougher than the vagina, and spit doesn't lubricate as smoothly so you feel the texture more directly. From what I've seen in amatuer porn some guys do like direct stimulation or sucking on their glans, but for guys like me it's too much and if it's enough too much I might even go soft. That's easy to avoid though. As soon as you know your with a guy who's head is sensitive, keep back and lick instead. Focus on dragging your tongue up the length of the shaft and *lightly* teasing the glans. When you do put the head in your mouth don't suck or move up and down. Just hold it gently in your mouth and work the shaft with your hand. If you do that right he should come VERY fast at that point.You can probably identify guys with glans that are too sensitive to suck on by watching how they masturbate. If he keeps his hand on the shaft and only incidentally brushes the head of the penis it's probably because the head is too sensitive to rub directly. If he rubs his hand directly over it himself then he's probably not as sensitive and you can suck all you want.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (21 March 2011):
 A lot of guys don't cum from blowjobs, but can cum very quickly if the BJ precedes sex or even a handjob. Don't worry about it, it's fairly normal and yes, the intensity would be part of the reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): Maybe he's the guy that just cant cum from blowjob ( that doesn't mean he won't enjoy it)or maybe he didn't want to hurt your feelings because it wasnt the best blowjob he ever got if you know what i mean.
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