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writes: heya, i'm a teenager and was wondering what you would say the usual age for giving oral sex was? i feel ready and have been with my steady boyfriend for 4 months and been close friends for a year before that, i really love and trust him. we hav'nt had sex yet but have played around with alot of foreplay ect.. i was just wondering what you would claissify as the 'normal' age for oral is? thankyou very much XxXxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007): I think the normal age is 15. At this age you research about the topics and learned what can go wrong and what to do for both of you to get pleasure from it. Be careful and Be SAFE.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2006): [laughs] Base on today's erm, 'standards' I don't think there is really an 'average' or 'normal' age for oral sex. [ponders] Considering girls and boys have sex as young as 10 and 11 and get preggy by 12... [sigh] Plus even if there is an 'average' age for oral sex, who are you going to 'believe'? Most of the aunts and uncles here are from the UK, Canada, and the States. We'll give you a general idea of what our common society might think is an acceptable age, but ultimately, that choice is yours to make.
And of course the usual generic: "be mindful of STD's, pregnancy, and use proper protection and lubrication, etc, yaddi yadda"
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reader, #1Gunner +, writes (10 September 2006):
I dont think there is a certain "normal" age for oral sex. But I do think there is one word out there that should be taken into account. MARRIAGE. You need to realize that oral sex is just one step away from penetration and mistakes do happen. You are young and you dont need any extra baggage to go along with it. I'm 21 and have been having sex since I was 14 but now that ive gotten older I wish I wouldve waited on the right girl to come along instead of who I thought I loved at the time. Teenage puppy love doesnt count.
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reader, kstxguy +, writes (10 September 2006):
I don't think it is fair to say that there is a "normal" age to begin oral or any other type of sexual activity. As a guy I will just say that once you do it, you can never go back and there is always next time. However, if it is something that turns you on to think about, and you truly are "ready" then give it a try. Just make sure you are not doing it for him only or out of fear of loosing him or something stupid like that. You are young and even though it may not seem like it, you will most likely not be with this guy in another 6 months. Also remember, no matter what he tells you, guys talk and you can pretty much count on most of his closest friends knowing within 24 hours exactly what you have done with him. If he says he isn't going to tell anyone, he is lying (wow, feel like I just broke the guy code or something)
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