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writes: I dont know if this is a questoin or just realy a vent. But Ive been battling with sever depression over the past 5 years it seems, Since I had a misscaraige of twins, I wound up getting a part of my inners torn out from it to. After I had my second child a few years after the misscariage, Ive seem to found my self depressed again, pushing my Husband away, and just wanting to be left alone. I talked to my husband (not enouph) a little bit about how I was feeling unhappy and depressed in our relationship, I find myself still having a hard time getting over the fact that I was alone in the hospital the night our second child was born, and left alone again after getting my one remaing tube tied. He swears up and down he loves me and never wants to loose me, I jsut feel so ugly and not realy wanted because I was left alone when i realy needed it. I can understand him not wanting to be int he hospital specialy since his father had died about 3 weeks before i had our second son, but Oh how I just needed someone to be with me, then two years later he still cant stand to stay at the hospital with me, the kids were at my mother's so it was not like he had to take care of them.. Im jsut feeling realy confused and I dont know what to do. I love my husband but Im having resentment towards him and I dont think that is right betweeen a husband and wife. Any comments are most welcome.
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reader, #1Gunner +, writes (10 September 2006):
I think personally as a husband it is your right to be there with your wife. If he really loved you he should have been there holding your hand the whole time or at least sitting in the waiting room coming in to check on you every now and then. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him how you feel all the way around. It is going to make for a unhealthy relationship for both of you if you dont.
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