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*znPersuasion
writes:Well one day i was giving my boyfriend head, and when i was doing it he was putting off more body heat then usual. So i started sweating, Alot...:( and Also when he came he stopped for a second i thought he was done and so i put my head up, But he wasnt. so he came on my nose.. haha. Yes it was funny but it was sooooo Embarassing. I just dont know what to do. I feel awkward and scared to gve him head again. Does mess ups like that happen alot? Also my gag reflexes were like idk stronger that day too, i really couldnt get it that far down into my throat. Is that normal? i just need help now i feel like ugly and awkward when he sees me even though he says im beautiful and he doesnt care i keep getting this picture in my head of a sweaty asian with cum on her nose..Any help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2011): You're more upset about it than he is. These things happen... yet you can get thru it...
Imagine when you're older LOL! My man is 52, I'm 50 and we enjoy oral sex. I am doing it more than ever in my life and receiving it more. I'm in early menapause and never know when my period comes now and once during foreplay my man was 'close encounter' gazing at and fingering my vagina (as he likes to do) then he pulled out a bloody finger!
I was initially mortified! We don't do sex during that time so oral upon me was off the table... Yet, he was really cool about it and I started to laugh at how crazy the 'surprise' was. I went and put in a tampon and we continued foreplay with me giving him some great head and days later when I was off my period he returned the favor. Ohh, weee!
Another time I was giving him head and got and almost fell off the low seat I was sitting on (I cannot do it on my knees as I have problems with one knee). We stopped for a minute to get my bearings. We laughed and continued on. I've had him doing me and the phone rang right at the high point. Oh great!
LOL! Faux pas happen. It's just life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): His genitals have been in your mouth...that's intimate. A little cum on your nose is nothing... if you are this self conscious how can you enjoy the sexual experience? Relax, he wants you, trust me men don't worry about this kind of stuff as long as they are getting their jollies!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 I thought guys loved seeing their sperm squirt on their gf's face (nose included)? They think it's hot. And ever heard of hot steamy sex? That requires sweat. Basically what you had was hot steamy sex that ended with a facial. A man's dream!
You're probably the hottest thing he knows about and he can't wait to get down and dirty with you again. Next time if you feel sweaty afterwards, invite him with you to the shower. That way you can end things looking as pretty and clean as you want.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (5 May 2010):
 Wow this sounds like a troll question.
However, if it isn't, definitely not a problem.
Sex is not some perfect no sweat thing.
Sex is physical activity with seminal projectiles flying around at the emotional and physical peaks.
If you had someone come on your nose, that is honestly nothing.
If it was an accident, ok, make sure you don't do that again, lol.
Not a big deal
When I was 18 and lost my virginity, I jizzed and hit someone's eye from 4 feet away, no lie. She said cum on my chest and avoid my face.
I wasn't aware that i could shoot that far.
Now I back up if someone and have learned from my mistake.
The one thing that you should NEVER be with someone that is your partner is sexually embarassed.
I wasn't embarassed.
I said, "whoops sorry! My mistake!" and got her a towel and we laughed.
End of story.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (5 May 2010):
 You are taking this far too seriously...it's not a big deal. Part of the fun of sex is that sometimes things end up in places they are not intended. Embrace the humor of the situation!
Also, don't let your self-esteem hinge upon such things.Why should you feel badly about yourself because of your gag reflex (which is natural)? Why do you feel ugly because you were sweating? Perhaps you have an unrealistic expectation of perfection or fear your boyfriend will leave you if you aren't perfect. Please don't attach your value as a person to your sexual performance or looking or being perfect all the time. Your boyfriend is not even thinking about the situation that you're fixating on and I doubt he complained when this happened.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010): Hey babe,
Dont worry about it, its happened to loads of us including me my ex shot in my hair, stomach, boobs, the worst i had 2 go into work with it in my hair as didnt have the time to wash it( groose i know)
But what im trying 2 say is just forget it had even happened carry on like normal, talk to your bf about what your thinking
And im sure you will feel a lot better,
And bye far are you ugly with it on your nose, my bf loved it when it happened to me lol
If it does happen again laugh it off, it happenes to us all sometime or other
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reader, dirtball +, writes (5 May 2010):
 That kind of thing happens. I guarantee he didn't mind unless he is incredibly superficial. Please don't let this stop you from doing it again in the future. He will be confused if you just stop suddenly, for what is likely to him a complete non-issue.
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