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writes:I have been really happy lately well since Ii got a NEW boyfriend. We've been dating for a month now and it's like I don't want to spend any second without him, I really don't know what to do because I never felt this way before about any of my boyfriends. I also really wanna tell him how I feel but I don't want to sound obsessed so what do you think is going on with this cuz he's all I talk about, think about and dream about, the only person that can make me happy, and the first boy I've cry about if I don't get to see him... Is there anything wrong with that? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): You've only been dating a month and are all starry-eyed. That's natural at such a very early stage.I'd go easy on blurting out your feelings to him as yet. How do you know if he feels the same way? (Unless he has said so). Wait until you get to know him a bit better.When you do - and after some of his less attractive qualities begin to emerge, as they (and yours) inevitably will - (I'm saying both of you will find out you're not perfect) THEN you will see if you continue to be as keen on him as you are now.........if so, then great! But take it a bit slower.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): whoa, i agree never hide your feelings, but i think it's better to play it cool in the early stages of a relationship. many guys get scared if their new squeeze is really intense and clingy. he might not feel the same way about you yet, so be careful not to freak him out. i would say by month four you can let him know that you care about him and you love to be around him, but i think you should keep to yourself how in love with him you are, for now.
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reader, Amy...x  +, writes (19 April 2009):
sounds like your in love sweetie ;) dont be scared to tell him how you feel, we should never hide our feelings. he might be feeling the same thing. just go for it :)
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